Tattoos - trampy or arty?

So it's no big secret that I have recently become fascinated with tattoos. It started with a simple design on my lower back which represented everything I would want my first tattoo too, and it was very much what I needed and wanted in my life at that time. (It means to live life to the full, eradicate joyless living and anything / anyone in your life which prevents you from living the life you want). This was done after a few drinks for dutch courage, and I convinced one of my Best Mates Amelia to come along and get one done with me, so she got an A (self explanatory really) on her lower back.

Secondly, my Best Friend Liz and I got a memorial tattoo in memoriam of our late Best Friend Eren who passed away in 2002. We both got the Pisces symbol on our inner right ankle to represent Eren (who was a Pisces) Liz (who is a Pisces) and myself (who is actually a Sagittarius but I was the one who had the dream about Liz and I getting a tattoo of a Pisces symbol and Eren being there) - which after my experiences with the 'Spiritual world' after she passed away - was taken quite literally as a sign that it had to be done. This dream was also had on the eve of her Birthday.

The last tattoo I have had done is a music note and treble clef on the inside of my right wrist. Music is a massive part of my life, I'm always involved with it whether it be reading about, researching on, listening too, playing at home / work / gigs, going out to hear it and see artists perform it etc. It is what makes me so happy and keeps me going through the tough times, and something that I know I will continue to love and cherish until the day I die. I also use my right hand as my main hand when I DJ so the position seemed quite fitting. This tattoo I got with my good friend Rodd who also got a double music note on the top of his hand near his thumb, for much the same reasons.

Now, the reason I'm writing this post is because of late I've had the strong desire to get (yet another) tattoo. I am sure that I will save my left wrist for my Husbands' name (whoever that may be) - however the tattoo I'm contemplating at the moment is inspired by these beautiful Women






Usually, when you think of writing down ones neck / side / back you would think tacky, right? But don't these Ladies make it look good? Of course they're gorgeous, famous, rich, they can get away with it. But it leaves me pondering; in my line of work, how would I be looked upon if I was to get something similar? Am I going to regret it in 10 years time? What could I possibly want written on me, knowing it's with me til the end?

Being indecisive, what I've always wanted is something that represents either of the following:

* Love and the importance of it
* Resilience
* Life without regrets
* The pursuit and accomplishment of ones dreams

I've also contemplated getting something done in Hebrew (as I have Hebrew origins from my Father) such as Posh has down the back of her neck. However, I'm quite partial to the wording down the side (see: Megan Fox & Hayden Pantierre)

You're probably thinking - so don't get one if you're not sure? Well I'm not .. that is, not until I AM sure. I've been looking at sites with inspirational quotes and although I've found a few, I've not really found any that I'd want to commit to having on my body.

I have thought about getting the word 'Resilient' tattooed on me for strength during the tough times (and man there have been a few of those lately) but I am still pondering. I'll keep you updated.